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~ the never enough mind game idiot |
There is a character (human) who plays this key mind game: anything you do, is never enough for them, to the point of utter insanity. Example: no matter how much hours you work a week or no matter how much you have contributed, or no matter how much eye contact you give them, it is simply never enough. You could have literally contributed millions of dollars worth of equivalent work and stared them in the eye straight for 3 minutes without looking away, and they play this idiot mind game with you that it is not enough.
An example of this, was the character in The Simpsons, who was told to shave his side burns by Mr. Burns. No matter how much he shaved, even if he started cutting into his actual hair of his scalp and head (not his side burns any more) and near completely shaving the entire side of his head above his side burns all the way up around the top of his skull, this Mr. Burns idiot was never satisfied and kept demanding him to shave his side burns off.
https://www.google.ca/search?q=the+simps...side+burns
This tactic, is either because the person making the demand is mentally ill, mentally retarded (but not at birth, we are talking college/university educated morons here), or because they know this tactic is a dominating mind game so they can try to gain control of another person with. These people are often criminals, severely mentally ill, who are for some reason still out in society and not locked up in prisons or mental institutions, for whatever known reasons.
The "never enough" eye contact mind game is often used by creepy Women to try do dominate men, who they could obviously never dominate if they tried, so they pretend they are dominating them, rather than actually dominating them. Women can get away with bad behavior more than men, because normally if a man is badly behaved he will be put in his place and possibly smacked across the face with a fist - whereas a woman is very protected by society and can get away with nastiness that goes unchecked - again a reason why some of these demented people are not locked up in prisons or mental institutions, because the behavior goes unchecked or is ignored do to their privileged status. Or, society is too polite to simply walk away and ignore these idiots, or, in the extreme case smash them across the nose hopefully breaking it.
People who dominate others with never enough mind games are often into thievery too. If they keep demanding more and more out of you, they can steal your intellectual property while you work harder, and they work lazy, just stealing all your ideas while they sit back and make utterly stupid trivial claims like you aren't providing them enough eye contact, or, you aren't dating their child enough (say they are your inlaw, and you are dating their 25 year old daughter or son), or that you aren't getting up early enough, or at the dinner table you are not praying properly like you should, not sitting with perfect posture at all times, etc. etc. This type of person is so obnoxious that they literally ruin families and friendships, especially if they happen to be in your family and you literally would have to break up with their family member because the person in their family is so demented you cannot stand them - and, often this demented behavior gets passed down to their children anyway, so you don't want any part of their family. Or in the case of a workplace, you would literally have to quit your job just because of this one demented idiot in the workplace, even though everyone else at the workplace was fine.
These people have a "high demand" mental illness of some kind, that may not be described in the psychiatry DSM, where it is never enough no matter what you do - and often what they demand out of you is some trivial issue that has nothing to do with the actual goal, i.e. the Mr. Burns sideburns episode. They are extremely inconsiderate, and focus on issues that aren't even relevant. In the case of The Simpsons character who has supposedly too much side burn, how would he possibly become a better baseball player if he did have no side burns the way Mr. Burn`s wanted him? AFAIR he was a baseball player, in that particular episode.
These people that play "never enough" mind games, like their victim to be a little submissive subservient twat or pussy that gives in to their demented demands. In the case of a woman trying to dominate a man using these tactics, the man may give in to her games simply because society demands men respect and not talk back to, or punch in the face, this kind of idiot of the opposite sex. In these cases, it's simply good to avoid this person altogether and not communicate with them (step out of the game, don't play) - but some times it is impossible to do this if you are in certain situations. Example: They are on some board that you are also on, or they are at a workplace you are at.. it's not like you can just step out of the game and leave, if you have to be at that work place and have little opportunity to go elsewhere.
These people ruin things because they are often one bad apple that rots the entire box. Everyone else could be okay at a particular place you are attending to, and then this idiot shows up and completely wrecks the whole atmosphere. It could be that nasty inlaw that you have, even though the rest of the family is fine. Or it could be a nasty boss or worker and a corporation, or a nasty extended friend you have that's not really your friend, but is part of an extended group of your other friend.
There is something even more dangerous about the "never enough" mind game idiot: they can even team up with other people to gang up on you about whatever you are doing that is never enough. Imagine that you supposedly don't do something in particular "enough", so the mind game idiot gets 1 other person to team up against you, and now two people are telling you what you are doing is not enough. So they gang up on you to make demands out of you. You go to a job interview and give the interviewer tons of eye contact, and then the interviewer and someone else tell you that you never gave them enough eye contact, even though you certainly did. In this situation, simply do not get a job there - as they will play this mind game with you on other issues once you get the job. Now you have not one idiot on your back, but two idiots. Then there could be more they gang up with. Imagine for example that you have a partner in your family who starts saying something ridiculous like you don't read enough fiction novels, simply because you aren't interested in them. So then they get a friend to start ganging up and telling you the same thing, and their family members too.
Again, the best thing to do is to simply castrate this idiot from your life (remove them), and don't play the game. But, sadly, there are many situations where doing this is tricky, if not impossible in certain settings. These situations can be difficult. We do not live in an anarchy, but if we did, simply cracking these idiots with a clenched fist and winding them could do the trick, although I am not a huge fan for violence.
In marriage terms, these are the types of people who constantly demand more vehicles, renovations, more shoes in the closet, more clothes be purchased weekly or daily; but marriage is another issue. Let us not divert this wiki into a shitpile marriage sys, there is already a risk of a shit PUA sys evolving elsewhere.
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